Promises, Promises.
The thing about being married is that you forget how fun breakups are. Kind of like a long married couple can forget how much fun dating can be. But there's a crushing flip side to the "fun." A few months removed from a devastating breakup and a thousand conversations and therapy sessions later, I'm starting to realize what is truly eating me about all of this. The broken promise. It's not just David that has done this to me. No, I have a friend who refers to "the list of men" in my life, and while there haven't been many, they all have a common theme. The broken promise. Yes David made the big promises to me. "I will always love you." "I will always be here for you." "I will marry you and be your partner until the end of my days." "You have changed my life and ruined me for good. I will never be the same." "I don't want to spend another day of my life without you." "You h...